There may come a period in your life that you become a father and you must become stronger, because your responsibilities have increased. The time may be now for you to obtain a better job, go to community college or pursue a skill craft, but always stay focused that you have a family.
It is important that you become a positive role model for your family, they grow up so fast and you will ask yourself “where did the years go.” It is important that you introduce the family to religion and yourself to the influence of politics, because politicians affect every aspect of your life. Instill in your children that they can do all things well if they prepare themselves.
As their father you can become their role model—not a musician or ball player. Our children are dying every day so it is mandatory that fathers become stronger than ever so that we will have more knowledge and control over what our sons and daughters are about.
At this period of time we have become super strong loving fathers. Our sons and daughters are now adults, we no longer sit them on our laps; take them to amusement parks, the zoo, Carnegie libraries or the museum. But if the situation arrives “Daddy the Protector” is first on the scene.
I witnessed a football player who had knocked his wife unconscious and drug her off the elevator appear on a television special. I almost cried because by his side was his wife (protecting the money), his mother-in-law and of all persons his father-in-law. There is no question that the wife’s father is a weak colored man and father and definitely not a “super strong daddy”. Those of us who fit that category have a lifetime commitment to protect our daughters.
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(Louis “Hop” Kendrick is a weekly contributor to the Forum Page.)
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