(NNPA)—Dear Gwendolyn: I recently started a new job after being unemployed for two years. I got lucky. I took a computer course and became Certified in a special software program.
This is the problem: In our department there is a young lady who takes my breath away, just to see her walk by. Three months ago, I was eating lunch at a restaurant two blocks from the job. Because it was lunch time the place was crowded—there were few available seats. She asked if she could sit at my table. I said yes. Before I finished eating I asked if I could take her out. She agreed, but when I went to pick her up, she refused to go. She told me to get a better looking car.— Roland
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Dear Roland: There are many ladies who wish to meet a nice decent working man as yourself. Don’t make the mistake most men make and that is being carried away by a beautiful face, a curvy body and flowing hair.
I’m sure you need to be catching up with financial obligations that have gone unpaid while you were not working. With a new job I know you feel having a companion will make your life complete. But let me tell you this: Look for a lady with good character and who has a heart of gold. Never go into debt just to satisfy a woman. When choosing a wife, look carefully for signs of her desire for material things. Roland, women use their beauty to capture a man—even those who look plain. Therefore, I suggest you keep your attention on the job. Think about it. When the temptation gets too great, breathe in, then breathe out and let this trouble—keep on walking.
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